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		<title>Contagion</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Sep 2011 00:40:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Fr. Ernest Daly</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A movie that makes you realize how fragile life is. When a new, deadly virus breaks in Hong Kong it quickly spreads throughout the world, creating tragedy and chaos. This is a fictional film, but many disease experts say it does depict a real possibility. The movie highlights the plight of one family which is [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://ourfaithinaction.net/2011/contagion/contagion-movie-1/" rel="attachment wp-att-3876"><img class="alignnone size-large wp-image-3876" title="contagion-movie-1" src="http://ourfaithinaction.net/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/contagion-movie-1-575x460.jpg" alt="" width="575" height="460" /></a>A movie that makes you realize how fragile life is. When a new, deadly virus breaks in Hong Kong it quickly spreads throughout the world, creating tragedy and chaos. This is a fictional film, but many disease experts say it does depict a real possibility. The movie highlights the plight of one family which is among the first affected by the new disease. It also follows the efforts of several members of the Center for Disease Control in Atlanta as they grapple with the enormous problem and struggle to find ways to come up with a solution. There is real heroism portrayed in the movie, as well as selfishness and cruelty in the face of horror. Viewing the movie can lead to a good discussion about how each of us reacts when faced with tragedy. My favorite scene is towards the end. Try to guess which it is. Hint: most high schoolers will like this scene too.</p>
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		<title>The Help</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 31 Aug 2011 22:12:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Fr. Ernest Daly</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[One of the best movies of summer of 2011. Deals with the theme of racial discrimination in a moving, funny, but powerful way. Excellent acting. This movie can help us reflect on ways we all discriminate against others and encourage us to treat each other with deeper respect. Hopefully, it reminds us that every single [...]]]></description>
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One of the best movies of summer of 2011. Deals with the theme of racial discrimination in a moving, funny, but powerful way. Excellent acting. This movie can help us reflect on ways we all discriminate against others and encourage us to treat each other with deeper respect. Hopefully, it reminds us that every single person has infinite value and should be treated as such. Good movie for discussion about discrimination and bullying.</p>
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		<title>Sarah’s Key</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 31 Aug 2011 21:30:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Fr. Ernest Daly</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[An extremely beautiful but extremely sad movie. It tells the story of a little Jewish girl who escapes deportation to the Nazi extermination camps in order to come back and  rescue her little brother. The story is told by a woman reporter who discovers a strange link to the story of this little girl. The [...]]]></description>
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An extremely beautiful but extremely sad movie. It tells the story of a little Jewish girl who escapes deportation to the Nazi extermination camps in order to come back and  rescue her little brother. The story is told by a woman reporter who discovers a strange link to the story of this little girl. The movie really makes you reflect on evil and cruelty, on compassion and heroism, and on the scars that evil leaves in our lives. It makes you want to be a person who works for healing in the world rather than selfishness. There are some tough themes in this movie, but talking about these themes after seeing the movie can help deal with some of these themes.</p>
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		<title>Captain America</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Aug 2011 22:39:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Fr. Ernest Daly</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Captain America: the First Avenger Good movie about courage and doing the right thing. The hero is an underdog who is chosen for an experiment by a scientist who sees greatness in him: greatness of heart. The young man’s strength is not anger and revenge but wanting to stand up against any kind of bullies, [...]]]></description>
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<p>Good movie about courage and doing the right thing. The hero is an underdog who is chosen for an experiment by a scientist who sees greatness in him: greatness of heart. The young man’s strength is not anger and revenge but wanting to stand up against any kind of bullies, be them the guy in the alley or heads of state. His dreams seem to come to nothing, but he seizes an opportunity when others are sure the situation is hopeless. Good movie about true heroism without looking for the limelight.</p>
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		<title>Kung Fu Panda 2</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Jun 2011 20:36:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Fr. Ernest Daly</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Totally fun movie, but the “quest for inner peace” of the hero is a bit over the top. Well worth seeing, though, for a fun time.  ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a rel="attachment wp-att-3711" href="http://ourfaithinaction.net/2011/kung-fu-panda-2/kung-fu-panda-movie-image/"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-3711" title="Kung Fu Panda movie image" src="http://ourfaithinaction.net/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/kung_fu_panda_2_zynga.jpg" alt="" width="600" height="666" /></a>Totally fun movie, but the “quest for inner peace” of the hero is a bit over the top. Well worth seeing, though, for a fun time.</p>
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		<title>Toy Story 3 (G)</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jul 2010 17:07:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Pixar has done it again. They make us laugh, feel [...]]]></description>
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<p>Pixar has done it again. They make us laugh, feel compassion, excitement, sadness, and joy. Yet all they use is a bunch of children’s toys. It’s an amazing accomplishment, showing the power of simple values. Buzz Lightyear is always hilarious with his self-absorbed, yet noble personality. And Woody teaches us loyalty to friends in a heroic way. It’s probably this lesson that most impressed me, but I sure had fun while I learned the lesson. This is a must-see for all ages.</p>
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		<title>Taylor Swift: Valentine’s Day Every Day</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Feb 2010 03:42:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This February 12th Taylor Swift was featured in a movie about love and relationships, called “Valentine’s Day”.  One thing that is undeniable about Taylor Swift is that she loves her music. She also loves the experience of  love. Her love for music and her love for romance comes through in every song she sings.]]></description>
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This February 12th Taylor Swift was featured in a movie about love and relationships, called “Valentine’s Day”.  One thing that is undeniable about Taylor Swift is that she loves her music. She also loves the experience of  love. Her love for music and her love for romance comes through in every song she sings.</p>
<p>“People haven’t always been there for me but music always has.” </p>
<h2>“You can say that I love ‘Love’. It fascinates me.”</h2>
<p>“Today Was a Fairytale”, a song Taylor wrote for the Valentine’s Day soundtrack, dropped the third week in January. It quickly became the most downloaded single for any female artist, shattering the record previously held by Brittany Spears. </p>
<p>But in spite of her amazing success, it seems that Taylor has remained a very down-to- earth girl. Recently, on January 26th, she tweeted: “I didn’t notice until now that the person who made my coffee today wrote ‘you’re wonderful’ on the cup. It made my day.”</p>
<h2>Fearless Love</h2>
<p>In 2008, Taylor Swift’s album “Fearless” topped the charts, selling more than 10 million copies. Swift has received more than 50 major music awards to date, including one at the Video Music Awards in 2009. </p>
<p>Everyone remembers that during that acceptance speech she was interrupted by Kanye West who felt a need to tell the world that he thought Beyonce Knowles actually deserved the award. In a moment of humility, the world saw Taylor show self control, kindness, and respect for the rapper who was saying humiliating things in what should have beenher shining moment.</p>
<p>Taylor Swift’s describes what was going through her mind during the encounter with Kanye West at the Video Music Awards:<br />
“Wow I can’t believe I won… This is awesome… Don’t trip and fall…<br />
I’m gonna get to thank the fans…This is so cool…<br />
Oh, Kanye West is here… Cool haircut… What are ya doing there… Ouch…<br />
I guess I’m not gonna get to thank the fans…”</p>
<p>After that moment, she went backstage and tried hard to hold back the tears, because she had to perform again. There was an outpouring of anger from other artists who called on Kanye to apologize for his behavior. Later on, Kanye personally called Taylor and apologize. She accepted.</p>
<p>“I think allowing yourself to cry on the bathroom floor is fearless.  Letting go is fearless.<br />
Then, moving on and being alright, that’s fearless, too.”</p>
<p>From a very early age Taylor has shown herself to be Fearless. Her pre-teen singing talents were discovered through performing karaoke songs locally at fairs and events. By the age of 10 she was an award-winning poet. At age 12 she started playing the guitar. She practiced for many hours every day. She learned to combine her talents for writing poetry with her passion for music. </p>
<p>Her family was very supportive of her talents and dreams. They even moved to Nashville, Tennessee, to provide more opporunities for their daughter’s singing career. </p>
<p>By the time she was 13, Taylor Swift had a contract with RCA Records but Taylor left when the company tried to force her into a predetermined stereotype of a teen singer.</p>
<p>Swift had a strong sense of self even as a young aspiring artist, and she wanted to sing and write her own songs. Scott Borchetta, of Big Machine Records, heard her singing at the Bluebird Café and sensed she could become a powerful artist . He gave her the chance to write her own music with his record company. At just 16 years old, Taylor’s debut song, Tim McGraw, vaulted her into the music spotlight. </p>
<h2>Respect</h2>
<p>Taylor Swift, like all teenagers, is learning to navigate the world of love. That can be even harder for Taylor because she is a celebrity. One tool that Taylor Swift uses to protect her heart is <strong>self respect</strong>. Taylor believes in herself. In her music you can hear that her heart is full of ideas, hopes, dreams and heartbreak. She understands what its like to feel like you are invisible, and she understands what it feels like to have her heart broken by unrequited love.<br />
“When I was a little girl I used to read fairy tales. In fairy tales you meet Prince Charming and he’s everything you ever wanted. In fairy tales the bad guy is very easy to spot. The bad guy is always wearing a black cape so you always know who he is. Then you grow up and you realize that Prince Charming is not as easy to find as you thought. You realize the bad guy is not wearing a black cape and he’s not easy to spot; he’s really funny, and he makes you laugh, and he has perfect hair.“<br />
            — Taylor Swift,<br />
Rolling Stone Magazine<br />
And through her music Taylor is able to express these feelings to her fans. Rather than needing to express herself by wearing tight or ridiculously revealing clothes, putting up an over-sexed image, or getting into &amp; staying in immoral relationships with guys who hurt her, she chooses to move on and let go. In her songs, we can often find something of ourselves to identify with.<br />
“My goal is never to write songs that my fans can’t relate to.”<br />
- Taylor Swift</p>
<h2>Relationship Rebellion</h2>
<p>Taylor Swift is leading a very special revolution. It’s not a rebellion based on fighting parents and injuring herself through the same old predictable Hollywood patterns of self-destruction. Instead, she’s revolting against Hollywood’s demand that she destroy her mind, body, and soul in order to fit in with all of the other celebrities. Swift tries to live out her belief in herself and takes care of herself.<br />
“I rebelled against my record label when they wanted to shelve me, and I’ve rebelled against people trying to push me around in the recording studio. To me, that’s always been much more exciting than going out and getting drunk. I remember at high school trying to cheer up my girlfriends who were crying in the bathroom after some party when they couldn’t remember who they’d made out with the night before. You see, I don’t ever want to be that girl in the bathroom crying.”<br />
– Taylor Swift to the Brittish magazine, Seven</p>
<p>Even though she rebels against the studio, Taylor hasn’t had the desire to rebel against her parents.<br />
Taylor’s parents have worked hard to teach her about what is really important in life. On her 18th Birthday Taylor’s parents threw her a party in Nashville with 200 guests:<br />
“This is our gift to her,” said Taylor’s mother, Andrea Swift. “She knows the real gifts in life are relationships.”<br />
Taylor has written about the love she feels for her family in her music.<br />
“I have an excellent father<br />
His strength is making me stronger<br />
God smiles on my little brother<br />
Inside and out, he’s better than I am.”<br />
– “The Best Day”<br />
written and produced<br />
by Taylor Smith<br />
She also rebels through her music when she says that the guy who she’s dating and loves needs to treat her with respect. The idea of being a “princess” is frowned upon in our society at times. Women are told by modern society that being treated like a “princess” by a guy is a sign of weakness, and that they need to give that up if they want a success in their career. Taylor shows us that we can challenge those assumptions.<br />
In her songs she says that she wants the fairy tale society tells her to reject:<br />
“You’ll be the prince<br />
and I’ll be the princess<br />
It’s a love story<br />
baby, just say yes”<br />
– “Love Story”<br />
written and produced<br />
by Taylor Swift<br />
Swift works hard to show through the way she lives her own life that a real fairytale is possible by choosing to respect herself and by rebelling against society’s demand for self-destruction. </p>
<h2>Express yourself</h2>
<p>Taylor Swift is an example of someone who reflects confidence and inner happiness. In her songs we see the many rejections, not being cool &amp; not fitting in; she fearlessly shows vulnerability.<br />
“When all you wanted was to be wanted<br />
Wish you could go back and tell yourself what you know now<br />
Back then I swore I was gonna marry him someday<br />
But I realized some bigger dreams of mine<br />
And Abigail gave everything she had to a boy<br />
Who changed his mind and we both cried<br />
‘cause when you’re fifteen and somebody tells you they love you<br />
You’re gonna believe them”<br />
                                          - Taylor Swift, “Fifteen”<br />
Taylor Swift wrote this song about her friend who let go of her self-respect to feel a moment of “love” from a boy and lived to regret it.  Taylor saw her friend’s pain and vowed to herself that she wouldn’t let that happen to her. So instead of depending on others to make her feel loved, Taylor Swift has chosen to passionately pursue a music career and develop everything she has in her self – all of her talents.</p>
<p>What talents do you have? What are your passions?</p>
<p>“The lesson I’ve learned the most often in life is that you’re always going to know more in the future than you know now!” - Taylor Swift</p>
<p>So what have you done this week to build your fairytale future?</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ever since she was a small girl Miley Cyrus knew she wanted to perform. Her dream has come true on a level that has amazed even her biggest fans (her mom and dad). But is Miley promoting a healthy vision of being a performer or is she slowly abandoning Christian principles?]]></description>
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<p>Ever since she was a small girl Miley Cyrus knew she wanted to perform. Her dream has come true on a level that has amazed even her biggest fans (her mom and dad). But  is Miley promoting a healthy vision of being a performer or is she slowly abandoning Christian principles?</p>
<p>In this lesson we will look at Miley’s background and her values.</p>
<p>We will also look at what it means to be a Christian in the entertainment world today.</p>
<p>Miley Cyrus was born into a musical family. Her dad is a successful country singer. Many of her relatives are musicians, and she grew up singing and  attending her dad’s performances.</p>
<p>But there is more to her background than just being on the stage. Her father and mother are very into family. Miley grew up spending lots of time with her family.</p>
<p>Miley explains that when she was born, her dad’s music career was at an all-time high. But when she was about one or two years old her dad realized that he was losing something more precious than success. He was losing his family. “So he let go his music career and moved with the family … to the farm in Franklin to be the very best husband and dad he could be.” (Miley’s words)</p>
<p>Miley has spent lots of time with her dad, her mom, and all her family as she grew up, and this has continued as she became a star in her own right.</p>
<p>Another value that is very strong in Miley’s life is faith. Her dream is to be a light in the darkness of this world, a sign of hope.</p>
<p>When Miley first met “Prince Charming,”, (Everyone claims that the “Prince Charming” is Nick Jonas, and Miley has pretty much admitted it.) he asked her about her values. She immediately explained that she and her family are “hard-core Christians”.</p>
<p>She says that her whole family has gone to church on Sundays since she was a child, but when Miley was in middle school the family’s faith took a deeper step. “Brandi (Miley’s older sister) brought us to a new church in Franklin. The People’s Church was different. It became family for us. The members of our congregation hold each other accountable for the way we live our lives…For the first time our family started making decisions based on our faith…The People’s Church really opened my heart. It has made me truly thankful.”</p>
<p>Miley admits that one thing that makes her sad is that not enough people know Jesus. She tries to take time to read the Bible regularly, and her recent book is full of her favorite quotes from the Bible. She has also said that Justin Gaston (whom she costars with in an upcoming movie) got her reading the Bible even a little bit more.(Boys can have positive points, sometimes…)</p>
<p>One way Miley tries to live her faith is by helping others. She visits children in hospitals as she travels, a habit she picked up from her dad. She donates a portion of her earnings to charitable causes, such as Youth Service America and City of Hope (a cancer care center).</p>
<p>She also tries to communicate her concern over contemporary issues such as global warming.</p>
<p>Miley also wears a purity ring, as a sign of her Christian commitment to remain a virgin until marriage. “When I got old enough and there were boys in the picture, I asked (my parents) if it was time for me to get my own ring (like her older sister Brandi). My mom gave me one that has a circle on it, to represent the circle of  marriage. There’s a little diamond in the center of the circle for me, and when I get married, there will be another diamond added. But until then, it’s just me. And it feels right.”</p>
<p>“The press might make fun of some people for wearing purity rings, but I don’t pay attention to that. They can think what they want. I have my morals!”</p>
<p>But Miley has been in some controversy about whether she really understands all her Christian values.</p>
<p>About two years ago a cover shot for Vanity Magazine appeared in which Miley had her back to the camera and seemed to be nude. In fact she was not nude, but the pose gave that impression. Many parents expressed outrage that a girl who is presented as a role model for young girls could pose for such a shot. The image was sending the wrong message.</p>
<p>Miley and her parents apologized for the image. They explained that in the studio the pose did not seem that provocative, but after they saw the magazine they realized that they had been mistaken.</p>
<p>This past spring Miley tweeted about the Miss California “gay marriage” question.</p>
<p>On her Twitter page, Miley said: “Jesus loves you AND your partner and wants you to know how much he cares!</p>
<p>“That’s like a daddy not loving his lil boy cuz he’s gay and that is WRONG and very sad! like i said everyone deserves to be happy.”</p>
<p>We can agree with Miley that Jesus loves everyone. But Jesus tries to make us aware of sin: those things in in our lives that are hurting us and hurting our relationship with God.</p>
<p>People with same sex tendencies are loved by God. But, like all of us, they are also struggling with sin in their lives. They desire love, but are looking for it in a way  that will not bring them true happiness. And they end up drawing other people into a a cycle of unhappiness as well.</p>
<p>Sexual impurity hurts the persons who commit it, and it hurts society as well.</p>
<p>Recently, Miley has been involved in a controversy about pole dancing and provocative clothing. It seems that some poses and wardrobe choices in her debut performance of  “Party in the USA” (By the way, OFIA thinks “Party in the USA” is a cool song.) could easily be interpreted as too close to the setting of a strip club. These critics may have a legitimate point. It was imprudent of Miley to accept such a setting for the inauguration of the song.</p>
<p>Also, a number of people have pointed out that many of the wardrobe choices Miley has made on her recent tour have been a bit immodest or provocative. Miley certainly is not a little girl any more, and does not have to dress as a little girl, but is she pushing the envelope too much in the other direction now?</p>
<p>This brings us to a final discussion about what it means to be a Christian and a performer in todays’ world.</p>
<p>Today, it is not easy to understand that things like immodesty and homosexual relationships are impure and destructive. That is because so many shows, movies, and music present the opposite message.</p>
<p>In this atmosphere it is easy for Christians to get confused.  It takes real wisdom and discernment to distinguish between loving everyone and approving destructive behavior. Maybe some Christian might be able to explain this to Miley in a loving way. (Know anyone?)</p>
<p>Few can doubt that Miley Cyrus is an extremely talented performer. She has a gift for communicating joy. It is a gift given her by God, and she has worked very hard to develop it. She wants to help people by her performances. She wants to help them experience joy and love. She wants to give them hope. And she does this quite well.</p>
<p>But being a performer can sometimes lead to sending the wrong message. Miley has sent a great message many times throughout her career. But, precisely because she is so full of joy, Miley does not always realize that some aspects of her performances can have a meaning she did not intend. This is where the virtues of prudence, wisdom, temperance, and courage come in. This is where a wise counselor might help a bit.</p>
<p>Let’s pray that Miley continue to look for Christians who are gifted with wisdom to be her friends and advisors. Let’s pray that her friends and advisors continue to help her live Christian values.</p>
<p>We all need constant education and encouragement on what it means to be a Christian. Let’s continue to pray for Miley and encourage her in the good things. Let’s try to set a good example ourselves of what it means to be a Christian in the secular world. The world needs many more messagers of  Christian life today.</p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Nov 2009 17:50:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Alex Kubik</dc:creator>
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<p>The X-Games™ have always been the place where over-the-edge athletes throw down adrenaline-pumping stunts that blow the minds of spectators. Those who really excel at these death- defying sports often embrace a dark and murky culture of dissent, dissatisfaction, and dissing anything that resembles rules or conformity.</p>
<p>But a few of these dare-devils have been raising an uncomfortable stir. Sponsors and organizers are nail-biting over what fans will think when they learn their bad-boy, rebel heroes have embraced Christianity. In this lesson we’ll find out who some of them are, and how it happened…</p>
<h2>x-treme biker</h2>
<p>When motocross racing newcomer Brian Deegan won the1997 LA Coliseum Supercross, he astonished the crowd by hopping off his moving bike at the finish line. It launched riderless into the air. That was to be the first of many shocking stunts from Deegan that would rock the motocross world. The move was immediately banned by motocross authorities and racing rebel Brian Deegan found his bad boy niche.</p>
<p>Deegan was 12 years old when his parents divorced. He found a vent for his anger in dirt biking, and turned pro by age 17. He left small town Nebraska for Southern California, FMX headquarters, promising his father he would come back home and go to college if he didn’t make it.</p>
<p>Brian soon switched from motocross racing to freestyle motocross (FMX), which is more about stunts and tricks than riding laps. He soon joined up with other riders who wielded the same revulsion for authority. With Larry Linkogle, Deegan co-created the “Metal Mulisha”, an FMX team that would eventually compete and perform around the world.</p>
<p>In an interview with Phil Bartsch of the Courier Mail, an Australian newspaper, Deegan said “We formed the Mulisha because we wanted to have our own group of guys who stood up against the (motocross industry) establishment. We’re against people trying to make you do things you don’t want to do, like dress and look how you don’t want to look.”</p>
<p>The Mulisha became known for their raucous, destructive behavior, shaved heads, tattoos, wild parties and busted hotel rooms. Deegan chose a skull with a Nazi helmet for the Metal Mulisha emblem, marketing the symbol in a multimillion dollar clothing line.</p>
<h2>x-treme talent</h2>
<p>The X Games (formerly known simply as “X-treme Sports”) began to include Freestyle Motocross in 1999. Deegan has taken 3 Gold and 7 Bronze medals, competing in at least one X Games event annually.</p>
<p>He was the first ever to do a 360 in competition - an aerial back flip on the motorcycle while ramp jumping. The trick was named the “Mulisha Twist”. Deegan became internationally known for his willingness to invent new tricks risking everything to entertain an audience.</p>
<h2>x-treme attitude</h2>
<p>“For me, I would say my whole life was being a rebel; trying to form an image of this guy who has done a lot of sins, a lot of bad things. (I was) trying just to build a name - basically glorifying being a bad person…” Deegan goes on to express his growing emptiness he felt inside. “ I just was hurting the people I loved and doing the bad things.”</p>
<h2>x-treme pain</h2>
<p>The Metal Mulisha packed stadiums wherever they went. But ripping on a bike in FMX competition has the potential to rip the rider’s body as well as take his life. Like ancient gladiator games, spectators are as eager to see a crash as they are thrilled with a successful death-defying trick.</p>
<p>In May of 2005 Brian Deegan attempted a back flip for the MTV cameras filming Viva La Bam. He tried to slice through a 40 mph crosswind. The jump went bad. He took the handlebars in the gut, exploding his kidney, lacerating his spleen. He crash landed and writhed in pain on the ground.</p>
<h2>x-treme promise</h2>
<p>“In my head, I knew I was dying.” recalls Deegan. Rushed to hospital, the surgeon told him that he might not make it. Then and there he made a promise to God. “That was the final moment when I said, ‘You know what? If I live through this, I am going to fully follow Christ.’”</p>
<p>The day after his surgery, his wife Marissa fueled his desire to live by announcing that she was pregnant with their second child.</p>
<h2>x-treme change</h2>
<p>In an interview with Chris Palmer of ESPN Magazine Deegan said, “ That was be being a dumb kid. I tried to uphold an image and shock people. We had to be gnarly all the time. When I realized how stupid that was, people called me a sellout. But I didn’t owe them anything.” He also said, “It took me years to realize that I was a [expletive removed] idiot. It took me another 2 years to get away from it.”</p>
<p>True to his promise, as soon as he recovered he found a church for his family to attend and began opening up his home for a bible study and faith sharing for his biking brothers.</p>
<h2>x-treme influence</h2>
<p>Soon other members of the Metal Mulisha joined Deegan in his search for God. “I was able to bring Jeremy Lusk into our bible study. Twitch was in our bible study, just our close friends that we really cared about and it started to grow.”</p>
<p>They started taking heat for expressing their Christian faith in a culture that despises religion. But they found strength to stand up for their beliefs in each other. “I think the main thing,” said Deegan, “ is finding people that you can associate with. I continued to grow. Through that, we (all) really started to learn about God and the bible. That was pretty much how our walk started advancing.</p>
<h2>x-treme loss</h2>
<p>Jeremy Lusk was one of Deegan’s closest friends and a teammate, and he had recently been baptized. On February 9, 2009, while performing a back flip trick called the “Hart Attack” at a show in Costa Rica in front of thousands of motocross fans, he crashed and crushed his skull. The Metal Mulisha were devastated, but continued in their public outpouring of faith.</p>
<h2>x-treme wake-up</h2>
<p>“At this point, I’d say Jeremy Lusk passing away - you know I see my best friend, and just seeing him laying there – you know after he passed, down there in Costa Rica, I was just like, you know what? I go, this has to be the strongest awakening for me going, ‘You better figure it out, you better just follow Christ from this day on.’ It just really made me see how short that life can be and you don’t know what is going to happen the next day, and so why not live your life to where when you’re gone, you can be like, ‘Man, I lived the best life I could possibly live. I affected people in a positive way.’</p>
<h2>x-treme witness</h2>
<p>Deegan, when asked about his making his faith public, told The New York Times, “In the end I said, ‘who’s more radical than us?’ Everything we do is full-on. Once we went to church, we were full-on Christians, too. And we’re going to go for it. On the mic, I’ll say it. On TV, say it. The next thing you know, I have way more people pumped on me.”</p>
<p>So many fans began to question what it meant to give one’s life to Christ that Brian Deegan was moved to share his faith with his fans in an interview posted on YouTube called “Faisst Pastor PJ and Deegan Gospel” part 1 and part 2.</p>
<h2>x-treme struggle</h2>
<p>Brian De­­agan spends a lot of time up in the air flipping motorcycles. But his life is becoming grounded in Christ. He strives to be a better person with God’s grace. “You know we had our ups and downs. We have done a lot of bad stuff and it still happens. I am still a sinner, I’ll admit it. I have my moments. I’m not happy for the things I’ve done. I feel bad the next day and I don’t want to do it again. The thing is, I am trying to become a better person, a better dad, a better husband, a better friend.</p>
<h2>x-treme sacrifice</h2>
<p>X-treme motocross has something in common with the real Cross. When an FMX biker, rally car racer, or any other extreme sport athlete performs, they offer every bit of themselves to their sport. Risking great injury and maybe even death, they pour it all out on the altar of that dirt track; to feed their fans hunger for a rush, and to gain their prize: the medal, respect, and money.</p>
<p>When such radical people come face to face with the intense, “full-on” love, giving, and selfless sacrifice that Jesus made on the cross (and we witness at Mass), they have a deep understanding of what it takes to do that. They get it, they respect it, and want to follow it.</p>
<p>God’s love for us, and giving that love to others, is the missing element that they were searching for but could never satisfy with an adrenaline high. Their desire to be unique is answered by Christ’s individual love for each of us. And as they continue their Christian walk, they find themselves more radical and different than ever before.</p>
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		<title>Reality Babe: Kourtney K. Chooses Life</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Sep 2009 20:00:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Alex Kubik</dc:creator>
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Lord, make us grow in respect for your most amazing gift,  the gift of life. Remind us that wherever we are at, you cherish our  lives and are reaching out to us. Amen.</p>
<p>Tabloid socialite and TV personality Kourtney Kardashian recently made a decision that shocked Hollywood and rocked the reality TV world.  The pop media is still in a frenzy over the news.<br />
Kourtney, who is 30, is the oldest sister on the E! network’s <strong><em>Keeping Up With the Kardashian’s</em></strong>, and recently finished a season of her own show: <strong><em>Kourtney and Khloe Take Miami</em></strong> with her sister.<br />
Los Angeles native Kourtney Mary Kardashian is the daughter of the late Robert Kardashian, who was OJ Simpson’s famous trial lawyer. Her mom, Kris, is married to Bruce Jenner, the 1976 Decathlon Gold Medalist.  Kourtney is a graduate of Marymount High School, an all-girls Catholic school in LA. She earned a degree in Theatre Arts from the University of Arizona in Tucson, in May, 2002.  After that, Kourtney assisted her mom in opening several children’s clothing boutiques in New York and LA called “Smooch”.</p>
<h2>Reality Shows</h2>
<p>Her first stint with reality TV began in 2005 with Filthy Rich: Cattle Drive, a show that followed celebrity kids working on a Colorado cattle ranch. The premiere of <strong><em>Keeping Up with the Kardashian’s</em></strong> in 2007 featured models Kourtney, Kim, and Khloe, who were joined by the rest of their family.  This includes brother Robert, Jr. also a model, and step-sisters Kendall and Kylie Jenner and their parents Kris and Bruce Jenner.</p>
<p>Moving to Miami, Florida, Kourtney and Khloe began shooting their own reality show <strong><em>Kourtney and Khloe Take   Miami</em></strong>, which aired on August 16, 2009.  But that’s not all that aired that week. Kourtney also broke the news that she was pregnant.</p>
<h2>Reality Bites</h2>
<p>In an exclusive interview with <em>People Magazine</em>, (August 12, 2009) Kourtney revealed her thoughts as she struggled with what to do next.<br />
“I definitely thought about it long and hard, about if I wanted to keep the baby or not.”<br />
Kardashian reflected that the “choice” of abortion is often made without a lot of thought and information:<br />
“… I don’t think it’s talked through enough. I can’t even tell you how many people just say, ‘Oh, get an abortion.’ Like it’s not a big deal.”<br />
She felt a lot of confusion and turmoil at this point.<br />
“I called my best friend crying, and I was like, ‘I don’t know what to do.’ She said, ‘Call your doctor, and at least find out the risks and stuff.’”</p>
<h2>Alternate Reality</h2>
<p>Kourtney’s doctor suggested that she do research in order to make an informed decision.<br />
“I looked online, and I was sitting on my bed hysterically crying, reading these stories of people who felt so guilty from having an abortion,” she recalls.<br />
“I was reading these things of how many people are traumatized by it afterwards.“<br />
It began to dawn on Kourtney that abortion was not a choice for her after all.<br />
“I was just sitting there crying, thinking, ‘I can’t do that,’” she said. And I felt in my body, this is meant to be. God does things for a reason, and I just felt like it was the right thing that was happening in my life.“<br />
“For me, all the reasons why I wouldn’t keep the baby were so selfish…”</p>
<h2>Reality, Man…</h2>
<p>Her boyfriend, Scott Disick, 26, came to her side to offer his support even though she had broken up with him already.<br />
“He wanted me to talk about it more, but I just kept to myself.“<br />
He said, ‘I really want you to keep it [the baby], but I will support you whatever you decide to do.’”<br />
“I really wanted to think it through for myself, and not hear what my sisters were saying, or what Scott was saying,” Kourtney explained.<br />
“Even though I took it all in, I wanted it to be my decision.“<br />
But the advice her doctor had given Kourtney at that first visit stayed with her.<br />
“My doctor told me there is nothing you will ever regret about having the baby, but he was like, ‘You may regret not having the baby.’”<br />
“And I was like: ‘That is SO true.’”<br />
“And it just hit me. I got so excited, and when I told Scott, he was so excited.“<br />
When asked about future plans for marriage to Disick, Kardashian said,<br />
“We talk about marriage all the time.”<br />
Then she adds:<br />
“I just feel like there is so much to do… We should do everything for the baby right now and I’ll worry about myself later.”</p>
<h2>Harsh Reality</h2>
<p>Perhaps the most convincing information about the effects of abortion comes from those who know first hand what an abortion can do to both a mother and her baby.  Some women who have had an abortion write their testimonies, the stories of their sufferings, and post them on web sites such as <a style="font-weight: bold; background-color: #99ccff;" href="http://silentnomore.org" target="_blank"> silentnomore.org </a>, <a style="font-weight: bold; background-color: #99ccff;" href="http://afterabortion.org" target="_blank"> afterabortion.org </a>, or <a style="font-weight: bold; background-color: #99ccff;" href="http://abortionfacts.com" target="_blank"> abortionfacts.com </a>. These post-abortive women hope others read the testimonies and learn from them, and might be spared the physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual suffering they experienced after their abortion.<br />
Dr. Alveda King, Director of the African American Outreach at Priests for Life and niece of the late Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., applauded Kardashian’s decision. In a LifeNews.com interview Dr. King said,<br />
“I am a member of the Silent No More Awareness Campaign, which posts the largest collection of such testimonies on the internet precisely for the purpose of exposing the truth about abortion.”<br />
In another interview Dr. King said:<br />
“Kourtney’s testimony is so encouraging. She found messages from post-abortive women like myself on the Internet.”<br />
It takes a courageous woman to give a testimony of the painful results of choosing abortion, as Dr. Alveda King knows. But saving a child’s life makes it worth the pain.</p>
<h2>Reality Check</h2>
<p>The flashy, anything-goes lifestyle of reality TV star Kourtney Kardashian and the decision she made proves a very important point. Anyone, no matter who they are, no matter how they live, no matter what they do, can find the truth by seeking it with an open heart.<br />
Kourtney didn’t want opinions. She began to ask real questions about abortion. What will it do to me? What will it do to my child? Before she made up her mind, she gave herself the chance to really check things out. Asking was the most important thing in the life of her unborn child. It saved his/her life.<br />
Kourtney Kadashian’s current lifestyle may not change much right away. She is still the glitzy socialite chic with a TV camera covering her every move.<br />
But who knows what questions she may ask in the future? One thing is for sure.  If she asks God for His help, she is sure to get it.</p>
<h2>Reality Babe–y</h2>
<p>Kourtney Kardashian soul-searched until she found the courage and determination to accept new life.<br />
“This baby was unexpected, but it’s 100 percent still a blessing,” says Kardashian. (8/26/09 from <strong><em>TransWorldNews</em></strong>)<br />
Her choice of love over selfishness was a life and death decision.  True love makes sacrifices.<br />
Regardless of her career, or what others would think about her decision, regardless of what might happen to her in the future, Kourtney chose the life of her baby over her own needs.<br />
For her, it was  selfishness to do anything less.<br />
Kourtney’s baby is due around Christmas.  We pray she will continue to hear the voice of God.</p>
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